Autumn has once again graced us with ‘Back to School’ business for our Kindergarteners and Grade Schoolers. This also gives those of us with younger kiddos at home more QTT (Quality Toddler Time) for some of the day. What a great opportunity to play. By that, I mean learn. By that, I mean play. A local favorite is the Children’s Discovery Museum of the Desert (CDMOD) located in Rancho Mirage, featuring more than 50 interactive exhibits and areas just for toddlers. Now this can be a seriously great time or it can be the total opposite. In order to achieve the former, always prep your wee one.
This should start at least an hour before you head out the door. Things to consider are: Has your wee one napped? Make sure they are rested before taking them out to an environment that is sure to stimulate (and possibly over stimulate) their little noggin. Has your little peanut consumed enough to satisfy their tummy AND attitude? It works wonders in keeping them pacified throughout play. What about Potty Time? Diapers or not, the difference between putting a kiddo with a slightly wet diaper (or full bladder) vs a dry diaper (or empty bladder) into a car for a ride somewhere means a lot to a child. Also, throw in a few of your child’s favorite things for the road like a book, stuffed toy or a sippy of water so they aren’t asking for too much when hitting the road.
Most importantly, to ease transitions and trips for your child and in turn, you, remember to EXPLAIN (communication is key) to your nugget exactly what is about to happen and the behavior you expect. Start with: “We are going to the Discovery Museum. You need to stay close to me, where I can see you. Be soft and gentle to others. We are SHARING with everyone else so TAKE TURNS. If you can’t wait for your turn, try something else. If you get upset and decide to throw yourself on the floor, WE ARE LEAVING. I don’t want to leave. I want to have fun too, so let’s work together. Do you understand what I said?” (Wait for full eye contact and verbal acknowledgement). State clearly that if you are there for 10 minutes and a tantrum occurs, you are leaving. FOLLOW THROUGH parents, so that the next time you go, your babies know you mean business. Happy teaching!
